Ask yourself these questions:
Where do I want to see myself in 6 month? … 2 years? … 5 years? (visualize yourself)
Imagine yourself in the future, walking into your home. Who greets you? What was your day like? (at work, school,etc). What will you do in the evening?
What are the necessary qualities I will need?
If, for example, you see yourself in 5 years with a different career, you may need schooling. If you see yourself as part of a couple, you may need to work on your interpersonal “issues”. If you see yourself as healthy, you may need to give up bad habits.
See it to become it.